Having another baby after your PPMD/PNMD group – register your interest

Hi everyone,

As you know while I was pregnant with Flynn I was part of an amazing group of Survivor Mamas called the ‘baby after PPD‘ group. This group of Survivor Mamas were a much needed support during my pregnancy & in the first six months of Flynn’s life – the nine weeks in hospital & the months following as we constantly worried about his feeding & weight gain.

I’m about to help out some Mamas who are thinking of having a baby after their PPMD, to start a FaceBook support group & am shouting out to anyone who wishes to join up. The group will be completely private so that only those in the group will be able to view your comments or posts.

The group will be supporting each other on various topics including staying on/coming off medication while trying to conceive & during your pregnancy*, ways to prepare yourself for the postnatal/partum period, action plans for the postnatal/partum period, preparing your toddler for their new sibling, anxieties relating to your pregnancy & postnatal/partum period, setting up support systems for when the baby arrives etc. We will also be asking those that have managed to have a better postnatal/partum experience after their PPMD to share their wisdom & insights in order for the group members to get both real life examples as well as the proof that having a better experience is possible.

This is my way of paying it forward as the support I received was invaluable. Thanks Amber for starting up our group back then & the lifeline it provided me.

If you’re interested in joining the group, please fill in your details below or email me at yuz@notjustaboutwee.com & we’ll contact you when we’re up & running.

 

* We are not medical experts or medically trained in any way when it comes to discussing medications, dosages, weaning or staying medicated during your pregnancy. We will be offering support in whatever decision you make in consultation with your OB, midwife, GP or physician.

Dads speak out on PPD/PND on Postpartum Progress

Throughout the past week there has been a wonderful series on the affects PPD/PND has had on partners/husbands. This series has been on Postpartum Progress, the same place our five day series on Having a Baby after PPD was on.

I have posted each day’s link below for you all. It’s well worth reading as it gives another perspective on this PMD & also insights into how our illness affects our partners. For those of you that suffered a PMD these are highly emotional pieces of writing & beautifully written.

A week later & there has been one more post, ‘For the Dads: Why you need support through her PPD too’. It’s such an important message for dads & partners. You need to remember to look after yourself too & one day down the track when the fog has lifted from your lives, you need to look after your marriage.

http://postpartumprogress.com/for-the-dads-why-you-need-support-through-her-postpartum-depression-too

Read the five day series below.

Warning: For those of you that are currently suffering any forms of a PMD, please tread carefully as some of these posts may be triggering to you. If you proceed & start struggling, please head straight over to #PPDChat support page on FB where comfort is only a ‘post’ button away.

Day 1 - http://postpartumprogress.com/dads-speak-out-on-postpartum-depression-part-1-getting-over-the-mountain

Day 2 - http://postpartumprogress.com/dads-speak-out-on-postpartum-depression-part-2-in-sickness-in-health

Day 3 - http://postpartumprogress.com/dads-speak-out-on-postpartum-depression-part-3-i-cant-fix-it

Day 4 - http://postpartumprogress.com/dads-speak-out-on-postpartum-depression-part-4-the-birth-horror-show

Day 5 - http://postpartumprogress.com/dads-speak-out-on-postpartum-depression-part-5-diving-in-to-help

Thanks again Katherine for featuring such an important series on your website. And thanks to the dads for being so brave & sharing your stories. You are all important & so integral to our recovery & healing. We might so not always tell you this, but we love you & thank you for your care & support in what has to be the hardest time of our lives.